The #1 Key to Dating Success that 99% of Guys Don't Know

This one key you're about to discover is so important that it makes or breaks EVERYTHING else you do when it comes to dating.

10019-close-up-of-a-face-of-a-beautiful-woman-pvHey Man,

No matter what your goals are, there's one thing you MUST get right if you want to be successful with women.

If you get this wrong, nothing else matters.

She literally CAN'T be attracted to you.

She might still go out with you or even marry you, but she will never feel deep attraction for you or be in love with you.

It's much more important than what you say and it affects everything else you do.

And even though this key is so critical, very few men know about it or how important it is. Unfortunately, even the men who do learn about it usually apply it the wrong way.

Learning and applying this key the right way is what gives you the power to choose the women you want to date.

And it has nothing to do with:

  • Your looks...
  • How much money you make...
  • Lines, routines, or any other "tricks..."
  • Spending tons of money on her...
  • Having the most in common with her...
  • Being an "asshole" or "jerk" to her.

According to, women go on an average of 24 dates before they find a guy they want to keep dating...

If she goes out with 24 guys she's interested in, the guy who applies this key is the one she'll want to see again. And again... And again...

However, before I reveal the most important key to your dating success, stop reading right now if you:

  • Already have the girlfriend(s) or wife of your dreams and they are deeply in love with you.
  • Have 10 high-quality women chasing you that you can choose from any time.
  • ONLY want to sleep with women once and then move on to the next one.
  • Are dead-set on spending lots of money to impress women.
  • Are okay with settling for women who aren't really interested in YOU.

If you already have total control of your dating life, you either know this key or you're applying it without knowing.

If you just want to hook up with women once and you never meet a girl that you'd like to continue seeing, you might be able to get away with tricking them into believing you embody this principle for one night.

And if you want to spend lots of money on women or you're okay with dating women who aren't really into you, this key won't help because it makes women want YOU and weeds out women who are only interested in your money or who date you for other reasons.

Still here?


Now that we got that out of the way, in the next few minutes, I can promise you one thing:

As you read every word on this page, you're going to see how any guy can apply this all-important principle to become instantly more attractive to every girl you meet.

The #1 Key

So what is this critical key that most men will never understand?

Actively creating and maintaining the frame that YOU are the prize.

Most guys agree to the frame that SHE is the prize without even thinking about it (especially if she's good-looking).

And if you're thinking, "But wait. She IS the prize...," it's not your fault. Our culture implies that she's the prize in almost every movie you watch, song you hear, and ad you see.

So it's not surprising that most guys don't know this secret or apply it when they meet a girl.

Unfortunately, that leaves us with a massive number of unattractive men who are otherwise great guys and an untold number of dissatisfied women.

She WANTS to meet a guy she can feel intense attraction for.

She's DYING to chase you.

And if you're a great guy, it's much better for her to chase you than some other guy who creates the frame that he's better than her in a NEGATIVE way.

Women don't really like "assholes."

They're just uncontrollably attracted to men who create the frame that they are a prize that she has to EARN.

Don't You Value Things You Earn More Than Things You Get For Free?

The great thing is that you can be as good of a guy as you want and still be insanely attractive to women as long as you actively create and maintain the frame that you are the prize she has to earn by implying this dynamic in everything you say and do in a way that lines up with your real personality.

When you meet a girl, no matter who she is, there is no frame that "exists" out there that says SHE is the prize and that you have to try to "get" her.

The frame is created by the two of you together.

One really easy way to tell what you should do in any situation with a girl is to ask yourself:

"If I really am the prize she's trying to earn, what would I say right now? What would I do right now?"

Those two questions alone can skyrocket your success with women if you ask them enough times.

If you create the frame that YOU are the prize SHE has to earn and she goes along with it, she will chase you, escalate on you, treat you well, and have way more fun with you.

She'll be EXCITED to meet up with you again.

She will see your true value.

If you maintain this frame over time, she will fall in love with you.

She'll never think of cheating on you or leaving you.

And, most importantly, she'll respect you.

Now YOU get to decide which women get to stay in YOUR life.

Wouldn't it be nice if you could choose from a pool of high-quality women who were chasing YOU?

Which one will you choose?

Once this frame is established, it's nearly impossible to change it.

That's why it's so difficult to go from the "friend zone" to dating her.

That's why its almost always better to start with someone new than go back to an ex.

That's why sometimes a girl you find attractive can be interested in you while at the same time a girl you're not as attracted to can give you the cold shoulder.

It's not about the "magic words" you say or how awesome you are. It's the CONTEXT of your interaction with each individual woman and her PERCEPTION of your value that count.

The longer you maintain a particular frame in your interactions with her, the harder it is to change it.

That can be a good or bad thing depending on if she thinks you're the prize or not.

And, it's much easier to break the frame that you're the prize and lose her interest than it is to convince her that you're the prize after you've already shown her that you're not.

Luckily, once you know this principle, there are very specific things you can do to create and maintain the frame that you are the prize.

But it's also incredibly easy to get it wrong even when you know this concept.

Most guys, when they learn this principle, try to do it one of three ways:

  1. They act super aloof (like James Bond) and think women are going to magically start chasing them with no effort.
  2. They start talking down to women.
  3. They learn and use lines, routines, and tricks.

Acting aloof doesn't work and makes you look try-hard.

Putting women down might work on troubled women with self-esteem issues, but it certainly isn't good for you or the women you date and it won't get you the high-quality women you really want.

Using lines, routines, and tricks only works temporarily. As soon as she realizes you're not the guy you're claiming to be, the illusion is broken and she's GONE.

==>If the way you create the frame that you're the prize isn't congruent with who you really are, you'll never be able to maintain that frame long-term and keep her around.

And when you inevitably lose her, you'll feel even worse about yourself than you did when you started learning about dating.

In order to attract and keep the most desirable women, you have to actively create the frame that you are the prize the RIGHT WAY.

And this frame is set, like concrete, the first time you meet up with her.

That's Why I Created

First Date God

So that you'll know EXACTLY what to do when you meet up with her for the first time to increase her attraction for you and make sure she wants to meet up with you AGAIN without using tricks or changing your personality.

Because you deserve to attract and KEEP the girls you really want and they deserve to be with a great guy like you.

And because I never want you to lose a girl and not know why ever again.

The first time you meet up with her sets the FOUNDATION for all of your interactions with her, no matter what your goals are.

If you don't get your first date with her right, nothing else matters.

What you say won't matter.

Witty texting won't save you.

The coolest second date idea in the world won't help.

There is nothing you can do to get her interest back if you blow it on the first date.

On the other hand...

If you do everything right on your first date, you won't be able to get rid of her. =)

Yes, this program will have you crushing it on your first dates and get you more second dates with the women you want GUARANTEED.

But it goes much deeper than that.

You'll have the power to choose which women you want to see again.

Which means you can select EXACTLY what you want.

And I never want you to settle. It's better for both of you if she's the one you REALLY want.

My Story

(First Time Publicly Revealed)...

In high school and the first part of college, I had no problem ATTRACTING women.

Girls would generally give me a chance.

But now I'm about to share a painful secret with you:

As soon as I actually LIKED one of these girls, I would never be able to keep them around.

They would RUN away.

And I had no idea why.

It got so painful that I couldn't keep these girls interested in me that I bought my first dating book 13 years ago.

That's when my life completely changed.

I had my first long-term girlfriend within 2 months and we dated for 5 years.

And once I started learning about dating and relationships, I was HOOKED.

Since then I've read hundreds of books and I've seen just about all the training available when it comes to dating and relationships.

I've had every experience from one-day connections to a five-year relationship with an awesome woman and everything in-between.

I've made almost every mistake and experienced almost every "victory."

I also focused on relationship satisfaction for my master's degree, so I've conducted original research and pored over hundreds of academic journal articles about dating and relationships as well.

Now, I'm excited to start sharing what I've learned over the last 13 years of intense study and real-world experience with you.

Because I don't want you to attract awesome women into your life only to lose them.

I know EXACTLY how painful that is.

mobile (3)And now, inside the First Date God system, I INSTALL all of the hard-earned lessons I've learned over the last 13 years directly into your subconscious as you sit back and listen to the program from the comfort of your own home so that you will CRUSH IT on your first date with THAT GIRL.

So she's DYING to meet up with you again...

...As you go through the program, you will experience many "aha" moments right away and these changes in your thinking will instantly improve your success with women.

...And if you keep going through the program until everything becomes automatic for you, you will be UNSTOPPABLE.

Here's another little secret: I continue to listen to this program myself, because the content is so powerful. =)

Picture This...

I want you to imagine for a moment going on a date with THAT girl.

You know the one I'm talking about.

The one you REALLY want.

On your date, she keeps touching your arm and hitting you playfully.

She laughs at ALL your jokes.

She seems to be "lit up" from her attraction for you and by how much fun she's having.

You can FEEL her attraction for you and it feels AMAZING.

"Wow, I think she REALLY likes me," you think to yourself.

Just as you're about to walk away at the end of an awesome evening, SHE reaches out, grabs your face, and kisses YOU.


"That couldn't have gone any better," you think.

Then, when you get home, you get this text from her...

This is What We Want:

This is a text I got after taking a really cool girl to coffee by simply applying what we cover inside the First Date God system.

I can't wait for you to get these kinds of messages after your dates too.

It feels awesome when the girls you really want are so attracted to you.

It feels even better when they STAY attracted to you.

What We Cover in This Life-Changing 8-Module, 5+ Hour Multimedia Program:

  • EXACTLY what to do on your first date so that she will be DYING to meet up with you again.
  • How to create the frame that YOU are the prize that she has to earn the RIGHT way.
  • How to make HER escalate on YOU so you never have to worry about "making a move" at the wrong time ever again and so she LOVES being physical with you.
  • 17 mindset shifts that will instantly skyrocket your dating success.
  • What makes for a good first date and what doesn't so you can avoid common first date mistakes.
  • Where you should take her on your first date (and your 2nd & 3rd date) to make sure she gets all the right signals from you.
  • When to end the date to make sure you keep her wanting more.
  • How to crush your first date conversations so she has way more fun and feels more connected and attracted to you.
  • Body language secrets that make her feel comfortable with you and attracted to you at the same time.
  • EXACTLY what to do after your date to make sure she will meet up again.
  • What to do between dates that sets you apart from EVERY OTHER GUY out there and drives her interest in you through the roof.
  • A date assessment so you can more objectively decide if you should ask her out again.
  • Everything you need to know to keep her coming back for more so that she FINALLY gets to be with an awesome guy - YOU.

Here's What's Inside the First Date God Program So You Know EXACTLY What You're Getting Today:

  • Module 1: Dating Paradigms (These mindset shifts make you instantly more attractive).
  • Module 2: Date Ideas (Exactly what kinds of dates are good and which ones to avoid).
  • Module 3: First Date Game Plan (Exactly what to do to prepare for and go on your date).
  • Module 4: First Date Conversation (Know what to say at all times).
  • Module 5: First Date Body Language (Make her feel more attracted to you without words).
  • Module 6: After Your First Date (Know exactly what to do between dates that separates you from every other guy and makes her want to meet up with you again).
  • Module 7: Date Assessment (Use this tool to be more objective when you decide if you will ask her out again).
  • Module 8: First Date God Closing (Final thoughts to keep you motivated and the importance of your self-image).
  • Video breakdowns of both good and bad body language so you can SEE it for yourself.
  • A Breakdown of good and bad texting examples between dates so you'll know what good texting looks like.

And, when you invest in yourself today, you'll get these 2 FREE gifts as well:

  • My best-selling book "7 Keys to Being a Total Badass." This book will make you even MORE naturally attractive. It went all the way to #1 in the self-esteem category on Amazon.
  • Amp Your State Before Your Date. This awesome bonus module will make sure you feel incredible going into your dates so that you can easily make her feel good too (she will want more of you).

How I came up with the price for First Date God...

Well, first of all, I'm not going to charge you anywhere near the $20,000+ I paid to learn the lessons I share with you inside the program.

And you get the benefits from 13 years of intense study and personal experience in just a few hours.

I think that's worth its weight in gold...

...I wish I had this program when I first started or even several years into my own journey.

Secondly, this program will save YOU thousands of dollars you might otherwise spend on wasted dates and countless hours of wasted time.

Dating is expensive.

According to a recent article on, dinner and a movie in New York City is an alarming $135, with dinner and basketball tickets running you $338.

Even in the smaller city of Portland, OR, dinner and a basketball game will cost you $145 according to the same article.

In other words, investing in this program and in yourself today pays for itself very quickly.

==>What's it worth to have the women you really want EXCITED to be with you?

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